{"id":45533,"date":"2026-01-22T00:00:49","date_gmt":"2026-01-22T05:00:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.detailedimage.com\/Ask-a-Pro\/?p=45533"},"modified":"2025-12-22T16:45:08","modified_gmt":"2025-12-22T21:45:08","slug":"gratitude-for-those-who-influenced-my-journey","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.detailedimage.com\/Ask-a-Pro\/gratitude-for-those-who-influenced-my-journey\/","title":{"rendered":"Gratitude For Those Who Influenced My Journey"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Well before I started running a business, I was on a quest for personal betterment that is ultimately never ending.\u00a0 I was in a dark place not necessarily because I was a totally horrible person, a need to be someone greater wore on me.\u00a0 I often questioned my self-worth.\u00a0 The irony of starting a niche business, years later!\u00a0 &#8220;Act as if what you intend to manifest in life is already a reality,&#8221; words of Wayne Dyer.\u00a0 These were one of the many lessons I took to heart on an continuous path of self-actualization.\u00a0 One thing that has helped me is, including but not limited to pricing, I did not passively ask consumers permission to treat myself like a legitimate premium operation.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-large wp-image-46182\" src=\"https:\/\/www.detailedimage.com\/Ask-a-Pro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/20250617_165949-1024x768.jpg\" alt=\"Mirror Reflections Auto Spa\" width=\"1024\" height=\"768\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.detailedimage.com\/Ask-a-Pro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/20250617_165949-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.detailedimage.com\/Ask-a-Pro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/20250617_165949-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.detailedimage.com\/Ask-a-Pro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/20250617_165949-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.detailedimage.com\/Ask-a-Pro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/20250617_165949-1536x1152.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/www.detailedimage.com\/Ask-a-Pro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/20250617_165949-2048x1536.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/p>\n<h2>Mike Phillips<\/h2>\n<p>I could speak to the obvious.\u00a0 Selected twice to be on television detailing quarter to half a million-dollar vehicles.\u00a0 But afterwards he provided assistance on the website that I did not specifically ask of him for.\u00a0 It helped realign my personal brand.\u00a0 It was a turning point.\u00a0 But I could go deeper into what the experience with him on did for me.\u00a0 He gave me confidence not only in reaffirming my detail skills, but CONFIDENCE TO CARRY MYSELF LIKE A LEGITIMATE LUXURY OPERATION.\u00a0 I should also mention everyone on both shows were kind and gracious to me.<\/p>\n<h2>Mark Barger<\/h2>\n<p>Mark was kind enough to receive a phone call from me one day, to give me some encouragement, before he applied a ceramic coating to a car.<\/p>\n<p>I never subscribed to the (my market) &#8216;pitty party&#8217; that most detailers complain about.\u00a0 But there is something to dealing with those doubts about your capacity for success to the area you are working in.\u00a0 Seeing Mark working in a small garage, in area considered more rural and lower income than most of the United States, should be a kick in the but to many.\u00a0 It was definitely an inspiration to me.\u00a0 I thank you for that.<\/p>\n<h2>A Car Show Visit From A Sponsor, Empire Auto Spa.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-large wp-image-38099\" src=\"https:\/\/www.detailedimage.com\/Ask-a-Pro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/camaro-back-1024x768.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1024\" height=\"768\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.detailedimage.com\/Ask-a-Pro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/camaro-back-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.detailedimage.com\/Ask-a-Pro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/camaro-back-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.detailedimage.com\/Ask-a-Pro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/camaro-back-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.detailedimage.com\/Ask-a-Pro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/camaro-back-1536x1152.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/www.detailedimage.com\/Ask-a-Pro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/camaro-back-2048x1536.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>There was a time in which I had raised my pricing to what I thought was appropriate for a premium provider.\u00a0 I had worked likely a lot longer than most detailers for a single stage paint correction service.\u00a0 I focused on working on smaller areas, fitting my polisher in appropriate spaces, and emphasized long polishing cycles over using multistage aggressive pad\/polish combinations.\u00a0 A manager for Empire Auto Spa visited the car I was working on.\u00a0 Just to show where my mind was, my private concern was whether such an established shop would consider my work to be up to standard.\u00a0 He asked some questions.\u00a0 I told him that I used the Rupes Mini for most of the car.\u00a0 He seemed a little surprised saying, &#8220;that must have taken you all day.&#8221; As I went to explain all of the curvature he said, &#8220;oh I know WHY you would do that.\u00a0 But how much did you get paid for this?&#8221;\u00a0 &#8220;You need to be paid much more for this.\u00a0 It looks really good.&#8221;\u00a0 I thank you for further elevating my expectations in an environment where so many people told me the opposite.\u00a0 This raised my consciousness to another level.\u00a0 Not only was I given encouragement to raise my prices, but my efforts were validated along with that encouragement.\u00a0 I also found new clients who agreed with him about the value I provided in my rural area.<\/p>\n<h2>Jonathan Monson<\/h2>\n<p>He did not mean to do this, I don&#8217;t think.\u00a0 But in &#8216;stirring the pot&#8217;, it served as a reminder the importance of holding consumers accountable for their unrealistic expectations, to attract more of the clients that want my services.\u00a0 His advice also may have kept me sane speaking at Mobile Tech Expo for the first time.<\/p>\n<h2>Renny Doyle<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-large wp-image-46163\" src=\"https:\/\/www.detailedimage.com\/Ask-a-Pro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/20250731_061623-1024x768.jpg\" alt=\"book\" width=\"1024\" height=\"768\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.detailedimage.com\/Ask-a-Pro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/20250731_061623-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.detailedimage.com\/Ask-a-Pro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/20250731_061623-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.detailedimage.com\/Ask-a-Pro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/20250731_061623-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.detailedimage.com\/Ask-a-Pro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/20250731_061623-1536x1152.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/www.detailedimage.com\/Ask-a-Pro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/20250731_061623-2048x1536.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I have not always had the best experiences at my local chamber of commerce.\u00a0 But at Mobile Tech Expo, he inspired me to give it another attempt with a completely different mindset.\u00a0 Focus on giving.\u00a0 In fairness it was not that my focus was entirely on my business, but being so determined to prove my validity to what I thought was safe place (business owners) led to some frustrations.\u00a0 Also reading his book was a step in deciding officially that I wanted to run a detailing business.\u00a0 It was not an easy decision for me.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-large wp-image-46187\" src=\"https:\/\/www.detailedimage.com\/Ask-a-Pro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/20250130_151218-1024x768.jpg\" alt=\"MTE\" width=\"1024\" height=\"768\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.detailedimage.com\/Ask-a-Pro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/20250130_151218-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.detailedimage.com\/Ask-a-Pro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/20250130_151218-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.detailedimage.com\/Ask-a-Pro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/20250130_151218-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.detailedimage.com\/Ask-a-Pro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/20250130_151218-1536x1152.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/www.detailedimage.com\/Ask-a-Pro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/20250130_151218-2048x1536.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I have another person to thank, and an overall message to those who have made it this far.\u00a0 A business owner, whom I used to work for, inquired about my detailing services.\u00a0 I told him a price for a basic (to me), but premium service.\u00a0 A wealthy man, who knew of my character well, had already heard pricing much higher than what I quoted him.\u00a0 He said he would contact me the next day.\u00a0 I did not hear from him or see him for several months.\u00a0 During a chance encounter he randomly asked me, &#8220;do I still do that high priced car stuff?&#8221;\u00a0 A little bit of backstory, it was during a time I had strongly considered moving on from owning a detailing business.\u00a0 It was also during a time I noticed he publicly supported a competitor, whose pricing was not dramatically different than mine.\u00a0 The irony being the hurt from the evidence of what he thought of me as a PERSON, turned into motivation.\u00a0 In many ways, I thank you as well for adding a log to the fire.\u00a0 I think of those moments when a new client tells me over and over how grateful he or she is for services that I provide.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-large wp-image-43620\" src=\"https:\/\/www.detailedimage.com\/Ask-a-Pro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/20231014_104413-1024x768.jpg\" alt=\"Mirror Reflections Auto Spa\" width=\"1024\" height=\"768\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.detailedimage.com\/Ask-a-Pro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/20231014_104413-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.detailedimage.com\/Ask-a-Pro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/20231014_104413-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.detailedimage.com\/Ask-a-Pro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/20231014_104413-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.detailedimage.com\/Ask-a-Pro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/20231014_104413-1536x1152.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/www.detailedimage.com\/Ask-a-Pro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/20231014_104413-2048x1536.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>There are going to be people, especially in this profession, who overtly and covertly will tell you what they think you are not.\u00a0 Don&#8217;t believe them.\u00a0 Focusing on them can also serve as a distraction from the many people that said there was more to you than what others see.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" 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